A Spring In Our Step

Well, today was the day to go to our assigned church congregation…Rochester 5th Branch. Driving on highway 31 and then took an exit to highway 490. Then onto the 390 and then exit onto Vintage Lane. We drove past a big wooded park. It takes us about 45 minutes to get there. The building is shared with the Rochester 2nd Ward. We have Relief Society/Elder’s Quorum first and then have Sacrament meeting. There were very few members today in attendance. Upon entering the building, we stopped and talked with the sister missionaries. One sister is from Texas and has been on her mission for three months. The other sister is from Utah and seems well-seasoned in her service.

In Relief Society (a meeting for adult women), we discussed a talk by Elder Holland given in October 2024 General Conference, titled, “I Am He”. We took turns reading paragraphs from the talk. The gist of the talk was Christ’s charity – evident in complete loyalty to divine will – persisted and continues to persist.

One of my favorite paragraphs: “Whom seek ye?” With all our hearts we answer, “Jesus of Nazareth.” When He says, “I am he,” we bow our knee and confess with our tongue that He is the living Christ, that He alone atoned for our sins, that He was carrying us even when we thought He had abandoned us. When we stand before Him and see the wounds in His hands and feet, we will begin to comprehend what it meant for Him to bear our sins and be acquainted with grief, to be completely obedient to the will of His Father—all out of pure love for us. To introduce others to faith, repentance, baptism, the gift of the Holy Ghost, and receiving our blessings in the house of the Lord—these are the fundamental “principles and ordinances” that ultimately reveal our love of God and neighbor and joyfully characterize the true Church of Christ.

Of course, all of this was in Spanish. I sat and prayed for understanding and help in discerning the meaning of the lesson. I started to recognize the difference in the Puerto Rican accent. At the end of the lesson, I was asked to give the closing prayer. If you could have witnessed the sheer panic on my face as I had never given a prayer in Spanish before. But I slowly got up and said, “Okay.” I managed to say some things and everyone was grateful that I did it. I told them that it was my first prayer in Spanish in church. Another hard thing done! We moved on to Sacrament meeting and they were having a testimony meeting, where anyone who felt moved upon, could go to the pulpit and share their feelings of the Saviour. It was a very sweet meeting. Erik used Google Translate with the transcript function to translate the meeting. It was a very humbling experience to know that the Lord wants us to be there, knowing that one of us needs a lot more Spanish in their life. It will give me the opportunity to have more conversations in Spanish.

The day was absolutely gorgeous and sunny. After a snack break, we went for our walk through Palmyra to the Prospect Hill. I made us take a slight detour so that I could see the lady walking her four dogs. I was able to pet and coo to them and then covered in dog hair, we moved on. I started searching for a path to connect to the path that Erik had been on, but ended up bushwhacking through the woods to get to the path. It was a good hike up there. According to climatologists, the Wisconsin Ice Advance, 15 to 10,000 years ago, covered what is now Wayne County with an ice pack about 5,000 feet thick. As a result of the progression and recession of the action, Wayne County contains a number of unique hills call drumlins; for example, Prospect Hill in Palmyra and Hill Cumorah are among the numerous drumlins in our area. At the top of Prospect, stands a tall telecommunication tower and a massive water tank. As we made our way down the trail, we took a one way street back to the downtown area. The houses are of spectacular design and landscape and are a joy to observe.

We watched an uncle teaching his nephews and niece how to use a wiggle board. He said that they have been around for many years but I have never seen one before; fascinating! A person very carefully gets on and then wiggles themselves to create a forward motion. That will develop excellent core strength.

Moving Day!! It’s time to pack up and move one block over. We are moving from a one level apartment to a two-story apartment. I jokingly call it the servant’s quarters. The photo shows the back view of the house. The little set of stairs is the entrance to our place. Our friends, the Gurr’s, moved into the front part of the house. The church that you see used to be the First United Methodist church. It went out of business and the building was sold in 2019. Our landlord, Jeff bought the church and this house which is known as the Parsonage House. Our little apartment has a renovated kitchen. You go upstairs to the bathroom, laundry and bedroom. As the Gurr’s and ourselves started the moving process, we also visited each other’s units. I was gobsmacked by how large their unit is; three bedrooms upstairs! Plus, I was struck by the beautiful staircase and millwork going upstairs. Our staircase is narrow and steep, hence, why I call it the servant’s quarters.

Erik had started bringing our belongings over while I worked on packing and cleaning the previous apartment. Remember how I said that it wasn’t very clean? Well, I was about to rectify that scenario. I took the screens off the windows and scrubbed the window sills and screens. I pulled the bed apart (quite literally) to move it all and clean along the wall behind the head of the bed. Oh, the lovely things I found! Vacuuming and washing baseboards was very satisfying.

Laundry was going on and then Erik suggested that I come to the new place and start organizing our belongings and the kitchen. With another car load, I arrived and started the work. I couldn’t understand the flow in the living room, so I jumped up and started rearranging the furniture. Our landlord said the we were free to do whatever we wanted. Every couple seems to like it a different way.

My haha moment of the day was right at the beginning. When I got up to deal with my hair and get ready for the day, I found a big twig in my hair! All the bushwhacking yesterday gave me a “friend” to bring home. I slept all night with it. I’m just becoming one with nature, haha!

We were both pretty exhausted at the end of the day and were looking forward to a good night’s rest.

I had an excellent night’s rest in a lovely comfortable bed. We have accordian blinds on the bedroom windows and poor Erik was awaken by a bright sliver of light beaming through the edge of the blind and going right onto his face. He complained about it and said that we need something to cover the edges of the windows. I told him that he simply needed to roll over and face away from the light; just like I have to when he is reading his Kobo at night, tehe!

More sorting today and finding places for our belongings as well as trying to decide how we want to live here for a year. It would be delightful to find more comfortable living room furniture. Rob Fergus told Erik that he should try thrift stores because that is how he furnished his home office. Another search party will be organized.

It was raining by the time we left to drive to the temple. Thank goodness I had put my rain jacket on. We met more new people and also are starting to recognise people from the past two weeks. I told workers that tomorrow is Erik’s birthday and I will be bringing cake and ice cream to the temple for everyone to share. I was told that Wegman’s has a good bakery and does nice cakes.

On Wednesday morning, we drove to Fairport where the Wegman’s store is. We stopped at Lowe’s to buy a little tape measure for Erik. I was stunned because people are allowed to bring their dogs in with them. We saw a short haired red dog going into the store. Once we entered, we saw a Great Dane checking out the red dog. Then after wandering looking for organizational items and the tape measure, I saw a white Golden Retriever. I told her what a pretty girl she was and I was rewarded with the Golden butt wiggle. Her dad said that everyone always tells her that she’s pretty and she knows it!

Upon entering Wegman’s, I headed to the bakery department to find out about cakes. Erik chose a chocolate cake and I had them write, “Happy Birthday, Erik”. I’m pretty sure that you can’t have cake without ice cream so we bought a couple tubs of vanilla ice cream.

I saw a recipe that I thought Erik might like for his birthday meal. Lemon Ginger Chicken with Pineapple/Mango Salsa. I made some coconut rice and spicy mayo to accompany the dish. The part I loved was that this recipe too, can be made vegetarian by substituting ingredients. Erik loved the meal and then we headed to our shift at the temple.

Workers at the temple were happy to see a birthday cake for Erik and told me how tasty it was. Wegman’s makes good cakes (is what I am told). I did purchase a gluten free piece of cake to join the celebration and it was very nice. I did meet a father and sons who came to the temple from Minnesota. I learned that they had lived in Canada for 20 years. For 15 years in the Red Deer Stake! He had gone to Canada (Ottawa) to go to law school and ended up practising in Red Deer. He knows my cousin, Todd Law. I asked what took him to Minnesota and his boys said, “You won’t believe what he did!” He left law and became an organic farmer in Minnesota!

Thursday brought a little bit warmer weather. Erik was finishing up little details at the other apartment and I was doing my workout. By the time we left to go work our shift at the temple, I was feeling a little tired. It’s not exactly a good way to start things. I kept nodding off during our preparation meeting before our shift. Our leftover cake was kept in the break room fridge and Erik made sure to have a piece before it was all gone.

Friday morning was a different type of morning. We donned our white scrubs to go help clean the temple. I’m not a real social morning person. I’m not grumpy but I like to start my day slowly and let my body get used to the day. There are squirrels in the area and I could see that some of the spring bulbs were being unearthed by the critters. There was a pansy that was nearly all the way out of the ground. I couldn’t leave it like that so, I dug a better hole for it and replanted it. Erik suggested that maybe I should be helping with the gardening. We had to fill out a form letting the temple maintenance people know what our skills were and also what we liked to do. My eyes hadn’t woken up yet and I couldn’t read the paper without some reading glasses. Erik filled in my paperwork for me. I was laughing because we had to rate everything from 1 to 5. I told Erik to put a 0 for me on a bunch of things. I really don’t know anything about commercial HVAC or boilers and pumps. Cleaning is my forte. After a couple of hours, we left to go home and figure out the rest of the day.

I wondered because of it being Good Friday, what would be going on in the area. Our landlord, Jeff, said that nothing should be different. Nothing except my heart as I pondered the Saviour’s crucifixtion.

“This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”

— John 15:12–13

INGREDIENTS

  • 1 dozen white, organic eggs
  • Skins from approx. 10 onions 
  • 2 Tbsp. vinegar
  • Approx. 2 quarts water
  • String 
  • Clean cheese cloth, gauze or nylon stockings cut into 4” pieces
  • Herbs, leaves, flowers and other botanicals to decorate

INSTRUCTIONS

  1. Place onion skins in large stockpot.
  2. Make sure eggs are clean. Dampen eggs slightly and apply leaves, flowers and botanicals to decorate. Place inside of piece of nylon stocking and tie both ends. Make sure the egg is wrapped tightly so that the botanical decoration stays in place.
  3. Place prepared eggs into the pot with the onion skins.
  4. Cover with water so that it is 1” above eggs. Add the vinegar and place the pot over medium-high heat.
  5. Bring to a boil, lower heat and simmer for 20 minutes.
  6. Check eggs for desired color.
  7. Remove from heat, let cool and store in fridge overnight.
  8. When ready, carefully remove eggs from the fridge. Next, remove the stockings and design pieces. Dry off and oil if desired for shine.

I was reading about the Latvian Easter tradition of using natural botanicals and onion peels to dye eggs. These eggs are beautiful and a lovely tradition of using what God made for us. I enjoy researching culture from Latvia and Germany because that is where Erik’s parents were born.

Holy Week is known as “Quiet Week” in Lativa. I love that because it reminds us to be still and contemplate the life of the Saviour and what our relationship is with Him.

Saturday morning was so lovely and warm compared to what we had been having for weather. Very cloudy but warm. Threatening looking clouds that would have us checking for tornado warnings in Alberta were swirling all through the sky. Today we were working a double shift at the temple. I was determined to stay awake for this preparation meeting. The temple was full today of patrons and we were kept hopping. Erik was concerned because I didn’t get a break and ended up working the entire day without a break. My legs started complaining and I noticed that one ankle was swollen. Hopefully, a good night’s rest will help a lot.

I hope that you feel and enjoy the blessings in your lives. I know that we all will experience hard times and pain. I rejoice in knowing that Jesus Christ suffered for all of us and took upon himself our sorrows, pains and all hard things. Through the atonement, He brought the opportunity for exaltation and eternal joy. Have a blessed week!

Finding Our Way

Monday the 30th of March came and I realized that we have been in Palymra for seven days. I like to start my day by drinking two cups of water and settling in to read my scriptures. Reading each day gives me strength and courage to go forth and try to be a better person. My personal reading schedule finds me in Alma in the Book of Mormon and in Acts in the New Testament. Plus I am studying the Come Follow Me program in the Doctrine & Covenants this year. It’s a lot to take in and process but I love being able to disect gospel principles and receive a confirmation.

Today was the day to meet the temple presidency. President and Sister Kimbler are from the Rochester area. The counselors are President and Sister Wozniak as well as President and Sister Lau. We met at the Kimbler’s home (the temple presidents have a home close to the temple) and Sister Kimbler made a beautiful luncheon for everyone. It was lovely to meet everyone. Brother Fergus, the temple recorder was also there and the Gurr’s. We were able to chat a little over lunch and afterwards we headed over to the temple for our orientation.

The Palmyra temple is one of what I call, “The Hinkley Temples. President Hinkley had built many temples according to this floor plan. They were called the small temples, usually just over 10,000 square feet. The Palmyra temple is all on one floor and is 10,900 sq. feet. There is a window in the main reception area that overlooks the Sacred Grove. I can’t wait to see it when the trees are leafed out. The trees that are there are a variety of the following: Sugar Maple, Tulip Poplar, White Ash, Black Walnut, Norway Spruce, Douglas Fir, Hemlock, Catalpa, Kentucky Coffee Tree as well as a variety of Oak species. Basically a hardwood forest covers the area.

The stained glass work in the temple is so beautiful. Looking back towards the main door, you see through a series of stained glass that looks like you are looking through the local forest, as to being in the Sacred Grove. This is the grove where Joseph Smith as a 14 year old boy, went to pray and ask God what to do as to religion. There were many different religions vying for members at this time; a religious revival. Joseph received his answer and it was not what he expected but he had been reading in the book of James. Chapter 1, verses 5 & 6. If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.

I love his faith, being of a young age of a boy. I love these verses and from these I know that God loves us all and wants us to receive knowledge and understanding. Thus in 1820, he went to this grove of trees on the family farm and knelt to pray. In the Pearl of Great Price (a book of scripture), Joseph recounts the experience in the grove. It is titled Joseph Smith History. To be here in Palmyra where this account occured as well as other important events in history is inspiring and touching.

We received our missionary name badges and temple name badges as well as our scheduling for working. This week we will work 3 days. Our neighbors teased us about having a 4 day weekend. We finished orientation and left to go home and absorb what is ensuing for us.

Tuesday dawned and we checked outside to see what the weather is bringing. So far, spring season seems to be typical. Showers and clouds, wind and not yet warm enough to do short sleeves. I seem to be missing my Alberta blue skies. Sister Kimbler reminded me to take my vitamin D. I did my workout on the rebounder and then Erik decided that we should go shopping so that he could find some hiking shoes. We drove some back roads to a mall. The landscape here is stunning, beautiful acreages and homes, surrounded by woodlands. We reached the mall, parked and entered the mall to find shoes. Immediately, I found Williams Sonoma and told Erik that I needed to go in. It was heavenly! Erik spots a $400 toaster and says, “This is not a store for us!” I was not to be deterred, haha! I perused the knife section, drooling over the knives that I could imagine cooking with. Our little apartment has 3 knifes, dull as anything. Then I moved on to the rest of the store. I did purchase a couple of Victorinox knives and a micro-planer. We taste tested their Bunny Bark; quite delicious.

Walking on, we cruised the entire mall to find the shoe store that he wanted to go to. He found a pair of Merrell hiking shoes, and off we went for lunch. Finding a Mexican restaurant, we decided to try it. It was okay, but the horchata was exquisite. I had Erik drive me to the Hobby Lobby so that I could get embroidery floss for my Nauvoo cross stitch pattern. I can’t say Hobby Lobby without saying it like my friend, Carol Keller. It’s her midwest accent that I will never forget.

Arriving back at the apartment, I was feeling exhausted and wondered if it was wise to do a workout and then walk all over the mall and now have to work a shift at the temple. Maybe a nap? Erik got his nap in while I sat with my feet up. We packed a protein bar to go the temple and headed there. It’s a four minute drive; pure bliss! It was wonderful to be welcomed to the temple family and learn the procedures that the temple uses. Can you say, completely shattered? That’s how I felt after completing our day. Because of our jaunt around the countryside, I hadn’t done my Spanish lesson and had to do it at 10 pm that night. Lesson learned both ways; do it much sooner in the day.

Wednesday was a rain day; all day long and into the night. We went looking for a couple of items and ended up driving to Newark which is east of Palmyra. The highway travels alongside the Erie Canal. I spotted a Tractor Supply store which is just like Peavey Mart in Canada (the Peavey Mart that went into bankruptsy and is no more). I helped me feel like home and was able to find a shoe horn for Erik. I had the opportunity to chat with a couple of ladies in Marshall’s because they asked me about my name badge.

Spanish lesson was done early! We decided to do an early supper because we need to be at the temple by 4:30 pm. Discovering that our shifts do not have lunch/dinner breaks, we decided to change up our schedule. I am including the recipe for our supper. Adapt as you need for dietary needs.

https://eatwithclarity.com/white-chicken-bean-chili/#wprm-recipe-container-47154

The temperature was dropping and the rain was slushy and collecting in the spring plantings at the temple. I must invest in a umbrella as I learned that it rains frequently here. We met a whole new shift of workers. When you are an Historic Site missionary, you are able to work 2 to 3 shifts per month in the temple. We also were able to meet Sister Lau, as she had been in Idaho visiting grandchildren. Erik and I were also able to meet President and Sister Hall, who attend the Spanish Branch that we will be in. They were very excited that I spoke Spanish and already told us that we will be speaking in May. Jump right in with both feet. I had told Erik earlier that I can help him with translating a prayer and a simple testimony into Spanish and that he could have it at hand to go when needed. President and Sister Hall loved that idea. That idea was thanks to President Spackman from the Calgary temple. He told me that when he was a mission president in New York, he had a missionary translate a prayer for him so that he could memorize it and use it when needed.

One of the temple workers has a quirky sense of humor. While I went to the break room for a drink from my water bottle, he opens the freezer section of the fridge, looks in and then closes the fridge. He looks at me and says, “The temple missionaries always keep the freezer stocked with Turkey Hill.” I asked him what that was. It turns out that it’s ice cream. Haha, good luck with that! His wife told me at the end of the evening that she’s too cheap to buy that expensive brand of ice cream. It was nice to go home and put feet up. The rain was still coming down and in the middle of the night, the wind had to have been blowing fiercely because the building was shaking. Thunder, lightening and sirens, oh, my!

The weather forecast for Thursday was bringing warmer temperatures. It was going to be 20°C and still cloudy. I had a slow start to my day; standing on the marble floors for 3 hours straight made my bones a little achy. But after getting moving, life started to feel better. Erik wanted to do some ruck sacking while he was trekking around Palmyra. I remember Lyndon doing it when he lived in Calgary. He would load up a backpack and head out for a walk. There is a company that actually sells supplies to do rucksacking but Erik says they are very expensive. Rucksacking is just walking with weight on your back aka backpacking. I never wanted to be a Sherpa thus I never was interested in doing backpacking. It reminds me of Sister Marjorie Hinckley when she said that both her and her husband Gordon wanted to do different things for vacation, so she went off doing what she wanted and Gordon did his choice. She said that it made for a happy marriage. So, I bounce on the rebounder and have a little dance party all by myself, six days a week.

Pounding bass music was coming from a pickup truck parked across the street. It went on for what seemed forever. Dare I ask the Lord again for the favor of making the music stop? Well, I did, and it did too. We prepared for another evening shift at the temple. Yet again meeting new workers and missionaries. When I put my water bottle in the break room, it seemed that every surface was covered in some kind of treat. There was a really big cake on a table, decorated with the 25th Anniversary of the Palmyra temple, April 6, 2000. There were donuts, cookies, etc. When I opened the freezer to tell the tale of Brother Wilson’s request, There had to have been 7-8 tubs of ice cream in the freezer! Brother Wilson was going to be thrilled. He came in shortly and made himself a plate of cake and ice cream.

After a lovely evening working in the temple, it was time to head back to our apartment and have a snack and prepare for bed. We have the Canadian Government sending us voting ballots to mail in. Hopefully it doesn’t take too long. Everyone needs to use their voice in the election.

On Friday, April 4th, Erik made some plans after his walk-about, to take a drive to see Sodus Point. I had done my rebounding and thanks to my friend, Janet, I added a song to my playlist. It’s called, “Good Day” by Forrest Frank. He does worship music and this song is a great way to start our days.

We stopped at the Martin Harris farm on our way. There isn’t a building to tour but there is a monument with a map of the farm. He was an early supporter of Joseph Smith. He lived on a 300 acre farm outside of Palmyra. He received this portion from his father’s original 600 acres.

Martin mortgaged 240 acres of his farm to be able to secure payment for the printing of the Book of Mormon. Martin authorized E.B. Grandin to sell the land at auction to cover the debt if Martin defaulted. Eventually, he was required to sell 151 acres in order to pay the debt. This home in the photo is not the original but was rebuilt and is privately owned.

We headed north of Palmyra to get to Sodus Point. In 1794, this was the first settlement of European-American. Before the settlers came, the area had been for centuries, the territory of the Onondaga Nation. During the War of 1812, the village was burned by a British raiding party. This left only one building but the village was rebuilt. This village is on the shore of Lake Ontario on a point of land on the northeast edge of Sodus Bay. The name was derived from a native word meaning, “gleam on the water.” Another possible origin is from the Iroquois, “Land of silver waters.”

Sodus Point Museum
Lighthouse monument within the original footings.
Volunteers look after the gardens at Sodus Point.

The area became an important port on Lake Ontario in the 19th Century. As the Erie Canal shifted state transportation patterns, the village’s function as a port declined. In the later 19th century, it became a popular vacation resort, especially for people from Chicago and other cities during the summers. We really noticed this as we were driving around. There were a lot of vacation homes and vacation rentals. It was fun to see all the boats in the shipyard. The museum was not open yet for the season but we took a few photos and tried not to freeze to death. The wind coming off of Lake Ontario was frigid but the view was beautiful. Erik brought out his binoculars so that we could see the Chimney Bluffs, which were spectacular.

Straight up!
Chimney Bluffs (not for scaredy cats like me)

This area is also known for it’s apple orchards and is only second in production in the USA behind Yakima County in Washington state. They call it the Finger Lakes Apple Country. We saw so many orchards being prepared for the coming season. It looks so different than anything we’ve seen before in Canada.

Leaving Sodus Point, we went to the Chimney Bluffs State Park. I went to the beach to see the stones, while Erik went up the hill to the cliff edges. Some of you may know that I am not a fan of heights and Erik even said that I wouldn’t have liked it where he had gone. The stones are famous here for buildings. If you look closely at the Martin Harris farm house, it is built in that manner. It was amazing to see them up close because of the colors.

Beach of Lake Ontario
Erik on the beach of Lake Ontario

Heading back south we made it home and then I realized that we needed some groceries for the weekend. Off to Wegman’s we went to procur nourishment to sustain us during General Conference. For my gluten free/celiac friends, I may try a recipe from the Loopy Whisk for a baking project. I used to always make cinnamon rolls (it feels like a million years ago) for General Conference weekend. I’m feeling brave. We’ll see how it goes. Most importantly we are looking forward to the messages. Oh, I just realized that we are not in the same time zone. It’ll be odd but it’ll be awesome to be fed spiritually and feel the joy of the gospel.

Caracol (snail)