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On the Move

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Our last week at the Palmyra temple was filled with joy and sadness. The most important thing that I learned in the past week is that when you have a celestial view, goodbye isn’t forever. My friend, Sandra Woods said, “If I don’t see you again here, I’ll see you on the other side!” My friend, Lynae Wozniak said, “We’ll meet in the south-east corner of the celestial kingdom.” A dear friend from my quilting life said at each trade show, “Meet me in the middle on the left!” One way or another, I will see everyone again.

Our Tuesday shift coordinator gave me a bracelet with the words “Think Celestial” engraved on it. When you have a mindset of the next life, it makes saying goodbye so much easier. When my mom passed away in March, I didn’t feel like she was dead because she’s just on the other side of the veil. I can’t see her right now but I know that she’s “right there”!

We were shift coordinators on both Wednesday and Thursday. When you talk about finishing and living your mission right to the very end, we did just that. Keeping your heart in the service of God to the very end is the thing that brings us joy. Knowing that we are going to serve another mission is an exciting thought and we look forward to all the possibilities and wonder of what the Lord has in store for us.

Erik and I were packing, sorting and cleaning around our temple service. We were so grateful that Deb and Bruce Allred were able to take food off our hands; frozen food, spices, fridge items. We were also able to gift them other items. A friend from the temple told me that she had Lyme’s disease and needed to clear her lymphatic system. I told her, “Well, I have a gift for you!” Erik dissembled my rebounder and packaged it up to bring to Lisa. Bounce, my friend, bounce and clear your lymphatic system!! Erik was in panic mode because he didn’t see how we were going to fit our belongings in the car. He told me that we were going to have to make some hard decisions. That meant that “I” was going to have to make some hard decisions. Well, the stand mixer did make it into the car.

It was a surreal moment to leave the temple on Thursday night. Deb and I held each other and sang, “I Need Thee Every Hour” in unison. She and I are peas in a pod. As I stood in the foyer, I had a receiving line of people to say goodbye to. The people that you serve with are celestial friends; the cream of the crop, the best of the best. This is because we have seen the dedication and sacrifice given by the members in the Palmyra temple district to serve and help others along the covenant path. I had given my gifts to the temple presidency on the Monday night potluck.

Because I had forgotten my water bottle at the temple on Thursday night, Erik went back Friday morning to pick it up and he got caught in the morning devotional for the cleaning crew. He shared an experience of miracles because it was a miracle to get everything in the car and then he got serious and shared that Zion is when we are united and working together.

Our newest neighbors, the Hollands, in the annex took a little bag of produce that I had left and then I was able to tackle the dreaded fridge cleaning. When you are fluffy, it’s not that easy to get to the back of North American side by side fridges. They are narrow and deep. I had the oven on self cleaning and when it was finished, I was very disappointed in the job it did. The Allred’s were happy with our cleaning and said that everything looked good. Bruce even pitched in and ran the steam mop. We were done!

WOW! To be on our way, felt strange. We drove the same route that we took to go to Washington, D.C. and sure enough, the Allegheny mountain range delivered rainy weather. I was in shock that the farther south we went, it wasn’t getting remarkably warmer. We pulled alongside a Coca-Cola truck with the cursive title; it looked old school to me and cute so I took a photo and sent it to Joel Dayton who is a fan of this beverage.

We made it to Frederick, Maryland by the first day. Taking the I-15 south took us past Gettysburg. Frederick is west of Baltimore. We stayed at a Country Suites hotel. It had great reviews so, I thought why not? Well, the only thing going for it was a comfy bed. We had a tiny cramped room and poor Erik was not excited about all my bits and pieces he had to bring into the hotel room. Did I ever tell you that I’m like my mother in that I love tote bags. I will designate items to certain tote bags. The good thing is that they are easily packable and stuffable but the downside is that they aren’t zippered and if they fall over, it can be a disaster. We slept well enough because we were exhausted.

The next morning, we repacked the car and headed to Richmond, Virginia. We learned that they have endowment sessions running every hour except when there is a shift change. Of, course we showed up during a shift change. That gave me time to talk with the brother shift coordinator for the morning. Brother Perry has been a trainer in a few temples in the northeast area. The Richmond temple was dedicated in 2023. If you paid attention to industries during Covid, you know that a lot changed in quality, workmanship and availability of products. This affected the Richmond temple and they had to have an early shut down to fix some major construction issues. This temple plan was the first of it’s prototype and of course, had to have bugs worked out. The decor is stunning with lots of navy, maroon and teals. They have four endowment rooms and we did a session. I loved their chapel’s artwork. It depicts the Savior’s life from being in the womb of Mary, to being born and then the artwork of Simeon blessing him as an infant. The final painting was of Jesus staying behind in the temple when he was twelve years of age and Mary falling to her knees at finally finding her son. It was a beautiful experience and plus I did the endowment session in French as I love the translation to French.

The Richmond Virginia temple

One of the things that I love about travelling is seeing the names of places that I never thought I would see in real life and not on a television or a book. Driving past Quantico, well, my inner spy was thrilled!

We drove on to Dunn, North Carolina and spent the night in a different hotel. I went to the hotel pool for a little workout and laughed and laughed because the pool was so small and so shallow. I managed to pull it off though. We had food in our cooler so we ate some of that and then after my language lessons, headed to bed. My darling Erik, had a terrible night. In the morning, I looked at him and asked how he was and he proceeds to tell me of his night. He wondered if he had food poisoning because he was up in the night purging his system. He was exhausted and said that he needed to sleep more. I never heard a thing because I wear ear plugs! He still wasn’t out of the woods and needed more purging. We never made it to church and instead he slept and then we quickly realized that we needed to check out just as eleven am was making itself known. As it was, housekeeping entered our room as we were saying our morning prayer. The sun was shining so we were hopeful that the day would be okay.

Picnic at a restaurant stop
2 cats were at the rest stop and a few of us were feeding them.

We carried on the I-95 until we hit our next destination of Lake Marion, South Carolina. Oh, hey…they have accents here! I am having so much fun meeting people. In the grocery store, I talked to a lady who told me that her husband died of Covid pneumonia in 2023 and now she lives with her aunt. This darling woman was 81 years old and her name was Annie. We discussed the state of the fruit before us (strawberries and blueberries). We talked about Christ and our love for Him. We also promised to pray for each other. It doesn’t get any better than that! Another lady explained to me about collard greens and how to eat them. NO, they aren’t used in salads because they are too thick and heavy.

The Goat Trail
This can’t be right!

We have a lake front Airbnb for a couple of days near Santee, South Carolina. We have seen herons, turtles, and fish in our little bay. The GPS took us down a goat trail to get here. I’m not a fan of the car’s GPS. We are loaded to the gills and the car’s suspension is being given a workout, never mind having to navigate a goat trail (quad trail).

I still love this quote because this sums up how I have been feeling for the past two months. My friends are eternal as is our families. I have great respect and love for missionaries who pour their hearts into relationships and build eternal lives with their souls. We look forward to the next mission and building yet again, new eternal friends.

Friendship

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We have had the opportunity to spend time with new friends and I have had the opportunity to prepare farewell gifts for people here. Erik and I have built a life with everyone that we work and serve with.

Table runners for the temple presidency.
State bird of New York (watercolor) for our temple recorder, Rob Fergus.

We absolutely loved attending Rochester 5th Branch and being part of the Latino culture. While it was a challenge for Erik and sometimes myself, I love the members and missionaries from our little Spanish Branch. For six weeks we had the opportunity to attend Auburn Ward and also have had the opportunity to love and associate with wonderful members there. What a joy to make eternal friends!

Being in the temple nearly every day, also gave us the opportunity to love our fellow workers as well as the regular patrons who faithfully come to the temple each week. There is a quartet of ladies who come from the Fayette Ward each week and I simply adore them. As time went on, I was able to learn more of the personal side of their lives as with other patrons.

This past week, I had an incredible tender mercy. Over a year ago a new patron came to the temple shortly after her baptism. She is the same height as me and I got to hear some of her story on her first day in the temple. This dear lady was from Japan. Her mother died when this lady was only seven years old. Last year, her mother came to her in a dream and showed her a building where everyone was dressed in white and there was a “pool” in the building. She was amazed as she entered the baptistry and saw the font. Everything was just like her dream. Her mother was telling her to come to this building and she needed her daughter to do work for her. That day she was proxy baptized for her mother.

Each time this dear lady came to the temple over the past year, I happened to see her. She was always happy to see me and we would embrace and excitedly have a quick chat. This past week she came to receive her own endowment. The way the day went, I was able to be with her throughout her time in the temple. I told her that her mother is very proud of her. We both shed tears of gratitude and thankfulness. She asked me to come and have a photo with her. I will forever have her in my heart.

Myself and Satsuki

This past Saturday was our last double shift in the temple and I just wanted to sing the Hallelujah chorus! My hip flexors were mighty sore after doing a double shift on hard marble floors. I would come home each week and put my feet up and just relax for a few minutes. The new missionaries are concerned about working a double but they will get eased into it and need to prepare for the busy summer ahead.

We are cleaning cupboards and I have been creating protein balls and bark for our road trip as well as using up food stuff. I will never forget, Elder Parker telling me, “Sister Naglis, you aren’t supposed to have a year’s supply of food on your mission!” Once an emergency prepper; always an emergency prepper.

Erik and I were assigned to give talks in Sacrament meeting and I was struggling to write anything down. I was exhausted and yet, I knew that God would give me the words to say. It is always a joy to stand before a congregation and look into their eyes and speak. Our topics were about having our hearts turned to Christ. I shared three scriptures:

Ephesians 3: 17-19

17 That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love,

18 May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height;

19 And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.

Helaman 3:35

35 Nevertheless they did fast and pray oft, and did wax stronger and stronger in their humility, and firmer and firmer in their faith in Christ, until the filling their souls with joy and consolation, yea, even unto the purifying and the sanctification of their hearts, which sanctification cometh because of their yielding their hearts unto God.

Colossians 3:1-2

  1. If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.
  2. Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.

Even though we were only a short time in the Auburn Ward, we love the members and worshipping with them. I had an interactive moment during my talk when a sister in the congregation wanted to confirm what chapter and verse one of the scriptures were so that she could mark them in her phone app.

Erik and I walked this past week to the ponds beside the Erie Canal. He photographed turtles there. We saw one little turtle but they are very skittish and it darted into the water when it heard us coming. Erik says the bigger turtles are braver and stay put.

The leaves are starting to grow on the trees.

We went with Allred’s to a new-to-us restaurant in Geneva called Kitchen Fare. The food was delightful and the company even more so.

Sorting and packing are the name of the game this coming week. I finished my projects and they are ready for gifting.

First of all, I’m grateful that my best friend is my husband. We enjoy each other’s company and it’s a joy to be in his presence. Secondly, I’m grateful for our friends who we know that we can rely on and be a support to each other. Thirdly and maybe this should be most important is knowing that Christ is my friend and my exemplar on how to be a friend and treat others kindly.

Remember, dear friends, Jesus still wants us for a sunbeam!

God Knows You

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Turtle on the log
Turtles near the canal in the wetland.

As I pondered the Come Follow Me lesson for the past week and my experiences, I know that God knows each one of us. We are his children and he loves us. We may have moments of wondering if that’s true when we seem to be wallowing in the pits of despair. Life can feel impossible sometimes and we think about how we got into a certain situation as well as where do we go from there.

Like most everyone, I’ve had some difficult experiences in my life and the one thing that I have figured out is that “It’s not over until it’s over.” I just do an about face and look at things from a different perspective. Many years ago, I started saying to myself, “What does God need me to learn from this.” When I step away from the emotion of a situation, it allows me to have perspective and find a solution that wasn’t the way that I had been proceeding. God’s ways are not our ways and if something feels strange in that it isn’t the way you normally handle something, maybe getting a little uncomfortable is what you need.

I have gotten a LOT uncomfortable to be able to learn many skills. I don’t fear failure, I look forward to learning something new. I love languages and I think the reason why is that I enjoy communicating with others. Every day I practice at least two different languages to keep my brain learning and progressing. Because of that diligence, I am able to communicate with people and I feel good.

I reached a 3000 day streak on Duolingo this past week. Plus I use Spanish Dictionary to keep my Spanish going.

This came in handy on Saturday at the temple. Patrons have the opportunity to do temple ordinances in their language of choice, by wearing a headset with the translation. A patron asked me for a headset to be able to use Arabic for her ordinance. Later on, I was able to help her with a language card and I know that God put me in her path because of my language skills. I don’t read Arabic but I was able to follow along with her to help her. There have been unnumberable tender mercies given to me as I have served in temples.

Many years ago, I was going to have my Swiss friends bring their horses and wagon to Olds for the Mountain View County Fair parade. I was going to decorate the wagon with my quilts from my store and basically advertise my business. At the last minute, my friends received a request for their horses and their fancy wagon for a wedding party. They arranged for me to borrow a tractor from a local dealer and pull another wagon. I arrive at the farm implement store and go in to discuss my predicament. The gentleman at the desk asked me if I knew how to drive a tractor. I replied, “No, but I’m about to learn!” He rolled his eyes and took me outside to the tractor. After some instruction, I climbed up and with the wagon hitched, I drove to the parade route line-up. During the parade, one young lad yelled out, “HEY, Girls don’t drive tractors!!” I yelled back at him, “Well, this one DOES!” It was a great day and despite being thrown into a tricky situation, I was able to learn and progress.

This past week, I made some chocolate covered strawberries to take to the Wednesday evening shift. They were a big hit and only one strawberry was left to take home. It was also a night to do some training for the Allred’s to take over from us.

Dark chocolate strawberries

Have you ever seen such a large roll of toilet paper? My goodness!

Thursday was Erik’s birthday and we had a gift certificate for The Cheesecake Factory to be used so off we went and were pleasantly surprised at how gluten free friendly they were. Then we headed to Wegman’s for some groceries. The Wegman’s in Pittsford is their flagship store and it’s massive. I was buying a cake and ice cream to take to the temple for Erik’s birthday. There were so many people running around with their faces glued to their phones and shopping carts whipping by as if the zombie apocalypse was immanent.

My big strong handsome man!
Here’s the old man in him struggling with his phone (haha)

On Friday, we went with the Allred’s and the Bliss’ to take them to Sauder’s Mennonite store and to the Whitmer Farm.

Elder Allred & Elder Naglis
Sister Allred and I trying out the gliders.

Check out the ice cream; NFL team with their own flavor of ice cream!

Later on we headed to Cafe 19 (XIX) for lunch. Their Mexican salad was delicious.

Allred’s , Naglis’ and Bliss’ at the Whitmer Farm
Whitmer Farm

Sunday morning snow was coming down which was quite shocking after our lovely 24C days previously. We headed to Auburn for church. Where we sat, in front of us was Dottie with her service dog, Sam. Dottie’s daughter says that Sam is quite spoiled. He was quite content to make googly eyes at us and smile all the while.

Sam the service dog

Remember that when you have an extraordinary moment that makes your heart sing, that is God’s way of letting you know that he is aware of you and loves for you to be happy.

Have a fabulous week!

He Lives

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Fayette Ward Chapel

As we step into Holy Week (Semana Santa), we can follow along with the days leading to our Savior’s crucifixion and triumphant resurrection. It was a lovely week as we stepped back into our service at the Palmyra temple. This week we had two new couples who are starting their year long mission at the temple; the Allred’s and the Dayton’s. The Dayton’s are our new neighbors on the other side of the house. I was also given the opportunity to train a new worker who serves as an Historic Site missionary. It is a wonderful blessing to overlap with the incoming missionaries!

We are seeing many new people at the temple this week due to Spring Break in schools. As I spoke to one family, they mentioned how surprised they are at the many different types of missions there are for senior missionaries. I remember thinking the same thing last year as I met many senior missionaries along our path. There are hundreds of diverse, flexible senior missionary opportunities. They may be full-time or part-time and can be tailored to specific skills and interests, often focused on humanitarian aid, education, Church operations, and family history. I love that service is available while living at home or traveling to locations worldwide.

Key Types of Senior Missionary Opportunities

  • Humanitarian Aid: Providing humanitarian aid, welfare, and self-reliance services.
  • Family History & Temple: Working with FamilySearch (in-person or online) or serving in temples.
  • Education & Training: Assisting with BYU-Pathway Worldwide, Seminaries and Institutes, or education programs.
  • Mission & Area Office: Serving in administration, legal, or mission office roles.
  • Member Support & Member Leader Support: Assisting with local unit needs, member engagement, and mission offices.
  • Church Operations & Facilities: Working at bishops’ storehouses, canneries, farms, ranches, and maintaining property.
  • Healthcare & Specialized Professionals: Supporting medical missions or using specialized skills for specific church needs.
  • Visitor Centers & Historic Sites: Guiding and interacting with the public

There are so many ways to add fulfillment to your life and we have certainly enjoyed our year in Palmyra. I was really nervous about being sent to a city or metropolitan area and have thoroughly loved being in a rural setting. If you are thinking about service, there are so many opportunities that, certainly, something will suit your needs.

We were looking forward to General Conference again. Before the Saturday morning session, Erik and I headed south to the Peter Whitmer farm and to Sauder’s (Mennonite store). We needed to be back by noon for the first session (EDT). Our first stop was Sauder’s and while I would have loved to have taken time to check out everything, I was pressured to get hopping and move along quickly, getting what we needed. Sauder’s is a large store and they have a mezzanine level with a railing where they hang quilts for sale. The quilts are so pretty and are priced at an amazingly low cost. My friend Sister Annette Moser (FM missionary) went to Sauder’s with her husband and purchased all the quilts on display, not once but again and again. She ended up buying 40 queen size quilts. The Moser’s do have 37 grandchildren and these quilts will be a legacy gift to them and the Moser’s children. I told Annette, that she was my hero! She replied, “I appreciate the talents that you quilter’s have and this is the way that I can support you.”

I’m pretty sure that Erik has kept me out of Sauder’s so that I don’t buy any quilts! I did get my Bee Cream and other groceries that we needed so that I could prepare food for Conference weekend. From Sauder’s, we went to the Whitmer farm. This is a unique building because the Visitor’s Center is attached to the Fayette Ward building. I was more curious about the church building and as I wandered, I saw artwork that I have never seen in any other church building. Bishop Thibert was there setting up the chapel in case anyone needed to see Conference at the church. The Bishop and I visited for awhile and he explained how their congregation is involved with the community. He took me to the display cases where photos show the work that has been done.

One of the service projects was done at the Ovid Union Cemetery. The Young Men from the Fayette Ward went every week last summer to restore headstones and clean the cemetery. These young men bonded and worked side by side to create a lasting memory for themselves and the community.

The project was so successful that they have been asked to help at three other cemeteries. For some of the headstones, they had to excavate them and prepare a new foundation for the headstone while cleaning and for some putting headstones back together.

The Ward also participates in a canned food drive (ExtravaCANza), organized by the local Rotary Club. Each organization that brings cans, creates a design out of the cans and Fayette Ward has won two years in a row! They have photos of their designs and it’s amazing. Maybe this year will be their third win.

Our Gen Con watching station

We drove home and were set up within a couple of minutes for watching conference. Sessions are streamed in over 70 languages. The feat to put on this type of event is massive. I loved the theme of Easter and the opportunity to participate in a Solemn Assembly. As the speakers each gave their talks, I was impressed by the feeling that each and everyone of them experiences trials and hardships and some are so hard to imagine going through. They are not exempt from the problems that everyone faces in their lives. The inspiration comes as they tell how they are handling the problems and what is getting them through it. The common denominator is Jesus Christ. By faith in him, we can face all adversity. Elder Ulisses Soares said, “Remaining connected to the True Vine is not merely desirable; it is essential.”

The night before His suffering and death, Jesus Christ declared, “I am the true vine … ye are the branches” (John 15:1, 5). Through this “beautiful and moving” metaphor, the Savior taught that He is the true, trusted and essential source of spiritual nourishment.

“Therefore, just as the branches cannot bear fruit of themselves unless they remain connected to the vine, neither can we reach our full spiritual measure unless we abide in Him and His gospel.”

Abiding in Christ is a constant, conscious and sacred choice. It doesn’t remove life’s burdens, but through His grace, those burdens are made lighter.

“As we place ourselves in His loving care and take upon us His yoke, we receive the spiritual power to endure and overcome the trials, weaknesses and sorrows of mortality — burdens often too heavy to bear without His redeeming help and healing influence.”

The world is full of voices, some good, some lacking in substance and some that deceive. Over time, these voices can grow into “tangled vines” that lead to spiritual loss and sorrow.

“In a world of many voices, remaining connected to the True Vine is not merely desirable; it is essential to our spiritual survival.”

This is part of just one of the talks delivered at General Conference. I love to reread each talk and be able to more fully study and get more understanding of the messages. In fact that was a directive given to us by our prophet, President Oaks, to reread and study these talks.

We ate Cowboy Caviar while watching General Conference. Plus we had leftover jello salad from the Missionary Easter dinner. After the Saturday sessions, we gathered at the Hill Cumorah Visitor Center for a dinner and program. The first wave of Sister missionaries had just arrived. One of the Sisters has been assigned to the Edmonton Canada mission after her four months of service at the Historic Sites. Keep an eye out for Sister Dever! The program after supper was so wonderful. We sat with the new temple missionaries and later someone asked where they were serving and Sister Allred replied. “We’re the God Squad! We’re at the temple!”

Erik rose and was able to catch this sunrise photo from our parking lot. Plus I want to share this photo of us at the Washington D.C. temple.

Palmyra sunrise
Washington D.C. temple

The memes and GIFS come out so quickly about themes and talks of Conference. One of my favorites is Will Ferrell, “Everybody love everybody!! Come on!!” A play on what President Oaks is asking of us. Be kind and get along!

Cowboy Caviar With Fresh Lime Dressing

We love this served with tortilla chips. Erik has freeze-dried this to take backpacking. This was our Conference snack on Sunday.

Above all, follow the Savior and be kind to everyone. We don’t know what anyone is going through as evidenced by the speakers in General Conference. We clean up, dress up and put on our happy faces even though inside we may feel like curling into a ball and hiding in a corner. I know that the best cure for my ills is to serve and help others. This takes away my pains and helps me to feel more connected to the Savior.

Spring is hopefully on it’s way. It’s coming in fits and spurts but one day it will be here, just like our Savior’s return to govern our earth. Have a beautiful week!

The Roller Coaster – La Montana Rusa

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It’s been a roller coaster the past two weeks. It all started with my mom being moved from her care home to hospice care. She declined very quickly and then passed on March 3. I was thrilled to have her visit me two hours before she passed away. When I heard the news that mom was being transferred, the question arose as to whether I would return home. I spoke spiritually with my mom and asked her if she wanted me to come home. She replied, “Absolutely not! You are where God needs you and besides, by the time you get here, I will be gone.” Thus my decision was made to stay in the mission field and complete our mission.

Earlier in the day on March 3, we learned that one of the six month missionary couples had to cancel their mission due to illness. I immediately told the temple president that we would be willing to stay. In fact my exact words were, “PICK ME, PICK ME!” (With both arms straight up in the air). He had conferred with his contact in Salt Lake City and they thought that it would be a good idea for us to stay because we were already here. Erik and I thought about it for a few minutes and discussed what it would mean for us. We agreed to stay another six months. The following day, that extension was denied by Salt Lake City and we were heartbroken. We went out for lunch with President and Sister Kimbler and waited on what was to happen next.

The next day, we received news that President Kimbler had authority to extend our mission by one month, until the end of April. The other news is that we would have to move to make space for the next set of year long temple missionaries. I dreaded the thought of packing everything for one month. Erik thought that it would be a good way to figure out how the car would look with it packed and see what we downsize.

We checked with the temple recorder (who is in charge of temple missionary housing). Brother Fergus decided that it would be best if we stayed where we are now and the other couple will be housed in another apartment until we left. I was very happy to hear this!

The Gomez family
5th Branch Missionaries

With our one month extension, we are being reassigned to another church unit. We have been attending the Spanish Branch in the Rochester Stake. My, dear, sweet, persevering husband has been using Google Translate to listen to meetings. I was devastated to leave this Branch because they have been like our family. I always get super excited to see them when they come to the temple. We were asked to share our testimonies on Sunday, and as well, I was asked to give the closing prayer in Sunday School. Being in the Spanish Branch has been good for my Spanish and speaking spontaneously. There were so many new people that the missionaries had brought to church. It was a very emotional day (the roller coaster continues).

Our Branch gifted Erik and I special gifts as a farewell. He received a new tie and I received a beautiful scarf, hair clips and a mug that says, “Con Dios, todo es possible”. I will treasure their thoughtfulness. Their kindness and friendship meant the world to us.

We were blessed to attend a farewell dinner at the Kimbler’s temple house. The Parker’s and Gurr’s were leaving to head west in the morning. I made table runners for them using the fabric line, “I Love New York”. The Kimbler’s gifted us beautiful prints of the Palmyra temple. President Kimbler asked each of us to share what serving in the Palmyra temple meant to us and it was wonderful to hear everyone’s stories. We had Sister Fergus take some photos of our group.

Elder & Sister Parker
Elder & Sister Gurr

This morning we said goodbye to our dear, neighbors, the Gurr’s. I will really miss them and I think Erik will miss the treats from Tonya (gluten buns, cookies etc.) After we drove around doing errands today, upon coming home, my eyes welled up because I knew we wouldn’t see Gurr’s car anymore parked in front of ours.

While walking in the Sacred Grove this afternoon, I spotted clumps of daffodils springing up. Soon we will have green leaves and see the blossoms. When we left the house it was 21C and then the temperature started sinking like a rock. In the Grove it was 9C and windy. We have cold weather coming in for the next few days.

Spring is coming

Being in the Sacred Grove helps me to think on the role of our Savior in our lives. Easter is soon approaching and personally, Easter is a very sacred time of the year. To think on the crucifixion and resurrection of Christ as sobering and brings gratitude to mind.

I know that I am loved by Heavenly Parents and a Savior who gave his life for me. This past two weeks of ups and downs has been a trial at times and full of joy at other times. I know that God has a plan for us and I will keep my eyes and heart heavenward to see the greatness of the blessings and joy provided for us. Our worth is eternal and great. I can reflect the Savior’s love through my acts and compassion for others. Let us be the mirrors of love that Jesus Christ shows to each one of us.

Levelling Up

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I have given myself grace for the past two weeks because I have been reflecting on our mortal existence. The older you get, you will find more of your friends and family who pass onto their next estate. My dad said, “Well, Cheryl, the older you get, you will find more of your friends passing away.” My reply initially was, “Well, I don’t have to like it!” As of this writing, my mother is preparing to pass through the veil. My mom has not had an easy life and I am in awe of her and how long she has withstood the trials and pains of her mortal existence. I am thrilled for her to shed this body that has given her pain and discomfort for decades. We don’t want her to suffer anymore but we do understand that she is in God’s hands.

I want to tell you about my friend, Darrell. I met Darrell through our service this past year at the Palmyra temple. I try to take time to visit a little with everyone so that I get a better understanding of their lives and what formed them. Darrell and I formed a special friendship because it turns out that we shared extraordinary spiritual experiences. It was so joyous to share the special things that we have lived with and know that each other understood how beautiful these experiences are. Darrell was very kind and was somewhat of what we call a renaissance man. He was skilled in many areas. He loved aviation and was a private pilot as well as a licensed aircraft mechanic. Darrell could build or fix just about anything. He was blessed to help construct the Palmyra temple. He had many sacred experiences during the construction of the temple. This past year, his dear wife, Cindy had started having shortness of breath and ended up having heart surgery. After her recovery I was so thrilled to see her back at the temple. Then we received news that Darrell was having heart issues.

Last month, Darrell was slated to have heart surgery to replace a failing valve that was replaced eight years ago. He was losing energy and struggling to get through his steps. We usually attend the Thursday morning Endowment sessions as patrons and we had two weeks with Darrell on these sessions. As I watched him in the celestial room, I noticed that his countenance was changing. He was becoming a different man; having peace and calmness. I was touched to realize that he knew that his mortal existence was coming to an end. He was getting up to leave the celestial room and he came over to me and took me by the hand, saying, “It’s so good to see you.” Then the following week on our regular Tuesday morning shift, he came out of the change room and came over to me while I was the greeter. He took me by the hand again and said, “My buddy”. The following day he had an angiogram scheduled to see if anything else was needed to be done while they were replacing that valve. On February 19, his surgery lasted eight hours but it was his time to pass through the veil. I am in awe of his peace and serenity that graced the last few weeks of his life.

It has been an interesting and humbling experience to watch this play out and see God’s hand in Darrell’s life. We all will have different ways to see this happen in our lives and the lives of our family and friends. I have reflected quite a bit, thinking on our mortal probation and what lies beyond.

I just listened to Elder Bednar talking to a group of people about how we are doing better than we think. The dramatic spiritual experiences are not usual or normal. Living day to day going down the wrong road and then backtracking is normal. We read in the scriptures about dramatic events that changed peoples lives but then there are people who did not change because of dramatic events. It’s the small consistent efforts that may seem humdrum but those efforts are the ones that keep you going. Striving to keep your covenants and pressing forward is great! I do not know why I receive the dramatic events but I laughingly told Erik, “Hey, I’m not normal!”

This past week I finished another baby quilt. This one is for one of our shift coordinators who are expecting their first baby in April.

I am finishing up some other projects and then it will be time to pack up the sewing supplies. With only 2 weeks left of temple service, we will be busy serving and doing our best. Erik is continuing with our journey home and the spreadsheet. We are sad that many temples are also on their Spring maintenance and will be closed but we will go to as many as possible along our path.

I tried another Loopy Whisk recipe, this one is for stacked cinnamon loaf; similar to monkey bread but even easier.

https://theloopywhisk.com/2024/11/22/gluten-free-cinnamon-pull-apart-bread/

I was an award winning cinnamon roll baker. Then the celiac kicked on and those days were over, or so I thought. Erik misses my cinnamon rolls and one day, I saw this recipe and thought that I would give it a go. I have learned that stress makes me bake. It turned out really well but I can’t eat much because of the sugar. The flavor….oh, the flavor, brings back the memories of cinnamon rolls!

It will be an absolutely joyous reunion for us with our family and friends in the eternities. I can’t wait to hear what everyone has been doing. I personally know that I have been ministered to by heavenly angels and my Grandma Lois has done some miraculous things for me to ease my suffering when I have gotten myself into a pickle.

My mother will be so joyous to run, jump and be agile again while she waits for her eternal companion. She will be busy in heaven meeting up with all the people who she has done name extraction for. She was unable to continue because of her health when she was 2500 names short of a million. Those million people also have families which add up to millions more that will greet her. I’m pretty sure that she will be an instrument in family research on the other side of the veil.

Have joy in your journey while you are preparing to level up. Progression comes little by little but you will make it!

Having Joy

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“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18) I love to witness the moments of joy in my life and give appreciation for them. When you look carefully and thoughtfully, you will find joy in your life. I witnessed this throughout the past week.

Having joy is a choice to find deep contentment in faith, rather than a denial of pain. I love these scriptures because to rejoice always is an invitation to find strength in God during trials like stress, fatigue or conflict.

To pray continually gives me a constant connection to God’s strength. Giving thanks in all circumstances is a practice that I found to shift my difficulties to gratitude. Through this practice I have helped myself build maturity, patience and a deeper more resilient faith.

As taught by President Russell M. Nelson, true joy is a spiritual state, not merely fleeting happiness, that can be maintained regardless of whether one is experiencing a bad day, week, or year. 

We had the opportunity to assist a family who were being joined together in marriage this past week. As members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we believe that families can be together forever in the eternities. While the couple were being married, the youngest children were getting impatient and could hardly wait to go into the sealing room. After the sealing of the family was done, the children were heard exclaiming, “THIS is the BEST day of my life!! We are an eternal family now!!!” I was so touched by their gratitude and joy at being joined together. I don’t remember seeing such joy from children before as they understood the importance of being together forever.

As well, the grandparents were so grateful and full of joy, and that joy spread throughout the temple. Family had flown in from across the country to be together and witness this marriage and sealing of family. What a beautiful day! Another miracle was that the sun was shining and they were able to take photos outside the temple together. The sun doesn’t shine very often in the winter here in New York. One person told me that this sky color is called “New York Gray”.

Here we are; best of the goofing around photos

Our home Ward has asked us for a photo of the two of us and a scripture to go on a plaque to commemorate our mission. Erik and I never sit for a professional photographer and thus we kept forgetting to get a photo done. We wanted one outside of the temple, but the weather didn’t cooperate. We finally went next door to the Gurr’s and asked them to take a photo of us. The next problem is that we don’t seem to take photos very seriously and it’s more of a comedy scene than anything else.

It’s hard to take this seriously!

Erik has been fine tuning his spreadsheet for our journey home. If there is anything you have seen in the USA that you would recommend for us, let me know. So far, we are planning on going to Lancaster, Pennsylvania to see a play at the Sight and Sound Theatre. This year the play is called Joshua. I’m really looking forward to it!

Sight & Sound® began nearly 50 years ago in rural Pennsylvania when a dairy farmer went from producing milk to producing live entertainment with a purpose. Now with two state-of-the-art theater locations, an online streaming platform, and a film studio, Sight & Sound brings powerful stories from the pages of Scripture and history to life on stage and screen.

Whenever I think of Gettysburg, I think of Bruce Blumell. Bruce has a deep love of history and for one Empty-Nester family home evening get together, he gave a presentation on Gettysburg. I have been to Germany to the concentration camps and felt the horrors of those places so I have mixed feelings about Gettysburg which had over 51,000 casualties in three days. This was one hundred years before I was born. This battle was the turning point in the American Civil War.

I am on the final projects for quilting and Erik is starting to get nervous that I won’t get them done. Today I have the final large project ready for the long arm quilter. Binding is made and ready to apply to the quilt when it gets back to me. I laid out fabrics for the next two projects and am feeling confident.

The lost sock

My missing sock has been found!! I bought some socks from North Carolina and they are based on using recycled wool. Each pair is made with the same pattern but the colors may not be in the exact same places in each sock. I was sad, wondering where my sock could have wandered off to. Erik (the official laundry person) said that it was probably stuck inside of some piece of clothing. Today he decided to cut up one of his collared T-shirts and found my lost sock inside of it. I am so grateful that he didn’t cut the sock!!

Next Sunday, Erik and I have been asked to give our final talks in our Branch. We will be talking about the blessings of the temple. When an English speaker uses a translator, the time is as if there were two talks given, so, we will have to be cognizant of the time (well, Erik will have to).

Tonight we are going to join up with the Historic Site missionaries for a Valentine’s Day meal. Their new Mission Leader for the Historic Sites will be joining us. There has been a two week break between the last Mission Leaders leaving and the new leaders arriving. Next month the new sister missionaries will start arriving as well to prepare themselves for the tours. They memorize the scripts for the tours and do a fabulous job.

I found an Instagram page called “mormon_food_review”. It’s really cute because these men who drink beer and cook chili decided to feed the missionaries. They edit their salty language but it’s so nice to see people being kind and helping the missionaries. They are from New York (Rochester) and I recognized two missionaries who have served at the temple. One of the videos show them in a restaurant being fed “Garbage Plates” which are famous in Rochester.

https://www.instagram.com/mormon_food_review/

I am bringing my seven (or more) layer salad to the dinner tonight. Erik cooks the eggs and the bacon and opens the can of water chestnuts for me. I chop and grate and get the salad put together. The good thing is that I used up two jars from the fridge, plus a can, haha! The Gurr’s showed us their food left and it’s not much at all. They are doing much better than us at reducing our food pantry. We’ll get there eventually!

I may sound like a broken record but I really believe that where we focus our lives will determine the joy we experience. The world around us is going to pieces, we need to be a righteous people who will receive the Lord when he returns. I encourage you to be part of creating Zion, having joy, keeping your covenants and stand ready to have Zion in your hearts.

Have a joyous week!

Unity

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Reclining together

We have spent the last two Sundays in Palmyra because of the snow. Unbeknownst to us, Palmyra Ward was having Ward Conference on Sunday. As I looked around at the people who were attending as well as the Stake leaders, Erik and I realized that we know many of these people. It was beautiful to meet together for the purpose of renewing our baptismal covenants.

I was overcome by the strength of the congregation renewing our baptismal covenant through partaking of the sacrament. We were one in Christ. Then I thought about all the saints world wide doing the same thing and was reminded of the great strength there is in doing so. What do we covenant at baptism?

We renew these covenants each week as we partake of the sacrament.

  1. Come unto the fold of God (become a member of the church of Jesus Christ).
  2. Be called His son or daughter (take upon me the name of Christ).
  3. Bear others’ burdens, that they may be light; mourn with those that mourn; and comfort those in need of comfort (help others).
  4. Stand as a witness of God at all times and in all things and in all places (testify of Christ and set a good example at all times).
  5. Serve God and keep his commandments.

When I keep my baptismal covenants the Lord covenants to:

  1. Forgive my sins.
  2. Pour his spirit more abundantly upon me (give me the companionship of the Holy Ghost).
  3. Redeem me that I might be numbered with those of the first resurrection and have eternal life (permit me to enter the celestial kingdom to live with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ).

Can you imagine the power that is available on earth when we collectively renew our covenants? I loved thinking about this while sacrament was being passed to the congregation.

Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints are a covenant making and keeping people. In both our Relief Society and Priesthood meetings, we had discussions about the covenants that we make in our lives with God. The feeling of unity was beautiful and it made me think of the life that we have developed and lived the past year. We have made so many new relationships with hundreds of people. The first month of our mission brought a feeling of being overwhelmed for me because I love to meet people and learn all about them. I was thrust into a new situation and was trying to process how I was going to accomplish the integration of all these people into my brain.

Last week, I looked back at the year and am thrilled with all my new friends and love to greet them by name as they come to the temple. One sister arrived on a Thursday for an initiatory session. Then I saw her again with youth from her ward to do a baptistry session. She was surprised to see me and said, “Are you always here?” I told her that, “Yes, we are here at the temple nearly everyday”.

I always think that we work with the best people at the temple. Temple workers are trying so diligently to live up to their covenants and thus we feel so blessed to be together. They truly are kind, sweet people who love to serve and be in the Lord’s house.

I had the opportunity to visit with a young lad (approximately 14 years old). He is one of a set of quadruplets. His other siblings had come the previous day but he had the opportunity to come by himself with other ward members. We had a great discussion about the Savior and I shared some experiences that are sacred to me with him. The following day, a sister that I was working with filled me in on some background of that young man and it quickly became apparent that God had put him and I together the day before. There are no coincidences in this life. Our experiences have a purpose and we need to pay attention to understand what the Lord has for us.

The south side of our house

So, it seems that winter has followed us to New York. While our western friends are living life in the balmy breezes well above freezing, we have actually reached minus 20 Celsius. Whenever the groundhog predicts six more weeks of winter, I usually think that, of course we do, it’s Canada! Hopefully in a month, it will look a little different here in New York. Erik has been plotting out our route for going home. We are heading south to avoid the blizzards that will be streaking across the continent. The first thing that Erik found to do, is bass fishing in Guntersville, Alabama. We do have other things lined up first on the recommendation of our friends. Stay tuned for those adventures!

This week I managed to get all the quilt blocks done for a quilt. I can hardly wait to see this quilted. Then I am on to table runners. My sewing machine still has two more weeks at the “spa”. I’m very grateful for my loaner machine!

Making heart blocks

This past week, I was prompted to do an endowment session in another language. I ended up doing a French session and it was delightful. I have never done a French session before and I was surprised because we have been attending a Spanish branch and my Spanish has greatly improved by doing so. I have been working on my French for a few months and it went very well. I am also working on my ASL skills and I’m so tickled to be able to keep learning new languages.

I am selecting recipes to try for my sweetheart. We enjoy our chocolate so I will try this one.

Paleo Chocolate Torte (Flourless, No Bake)

https://bakeitpaleo.com/paleo-chocolate-torte

I can testify of this! We are absolutely walking different paths. Working together makes this life easier.

I was thinking about the city of Enoch. They were all taken up. No one on the earth has been perfect save the Lord, Jesus Christ. I think of this city and in years past, I thought that they were taken up to the Lord because they were near perfect. Now, I think the important thing is that they were all facing the same direction. Having our hearts knit in unity with Christ is important. We are all so diverse and facing different challenges, yet, we can be unified by facing towards Christ.

So, let us walk upright before God and with one another. We will receive help from the other side to give us succor on our journey. As we continue in our imperfections and foibles may we be ever blessed with help from each other and from our savior, Jesus Christ.

Breathe

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It is an odd thing when Upstate New York is colder than Alberta. We were sitting at -15C here in New York and Alberta was having above zero Celsius temperatures. With the cold here comes very dry air. I am over the sensation of getting zapped every time I get up to go do something. I had packed a little diffuser for essential oils but we have been running it constantly just to put a little moisture back into the air. Still….Zing! Uncomfortable but I know that one day it won’t happen anymore. Oh, glory be!

I am including this photo that Erik took a couple of weeks ago. This is our church parking lot in Greece. It looks very frosty but it is entirely covered in salt.

Our house developed huge icicles hanging from the eaves. If one of those fell, it would kill someone. We were wondering how to deal with them and I suggested opening the laundry room window and using a broom, try to knock off the icicles. Erik tried it and it worked. It’s getting treacherous to walk on our stoop stairs because of all the melting, dripping and refreezing. On the other side of the house is our bedroom window and while I was sewing, I heard the thud of ice hitting the ground. Erik was again using a broom to knock off the icicles. I was worried about them falling because the air conditioning units sitting below the bedroom.

We finally were able to make it to Jon’s Sewing Machines in Wolcott. On Thursday we left early and made it with clear roads. They carry a small selection of fabric but I was able to find the New York State panel that has been sold out everywhere. They were able to reorder some and I was thrilled to find it. I want to make a quilt of the places we visited while in New York and many of the panels depict these places. Jon expanded his shop to have a huge repair area and so my Bernina is in for some spa time. On the way home, we hit a snow squall right before highway 14 and so we turned south and went to Lyons.

While in Lyons, we went to Aldi’s to pick up some veggies. We saw an Amish couple shopping there and when we left I had Erik take photos of their ride.

Our son Lyndon sent us a little video of our grandson, Henry opening his birthday present that we mailed to him. I found a quiet book of the Old Testament stories. When Henry asked his mom what it was, his dad replied, “Those are the brass plates.” Henry then said, “They sure are, they sure are!” Toddlers are so cute! He has now decided that he needs to wear a tie to church to go to nursery class.

Salt laid down by the snow removal company.

This past week, we experienced the onslaught of salt on the temple grounds. It’s very pretty and looks like sea glass but unfortunately it does get tracked into the temple and then melts into the carpets and makes blue puddles on the floor. Thus the presidency decided that we should encourage the patrons to remove their outer footwear before coming into the main foyer. We have four little cloak areas to hang coats and place footwear. It really helped to keep the temple cleaner and safer for everyone. This photo shows how much salt is on the sidewalks.

Palmyra temple by C. Fazio

My friend Christine loves to take photos and she’s really good at it. This photo is one of hers on a day where we actually could see blue skies.

On Sunday, we attempted to drive to Greece for church but as we were leaving Palmyra, the snow started picking up in intensity. By the time we reached the west side of Macedon, it was coming down so thickly that we thought that it might not be a good idea to proceed. We passed 3 big snowplows heading out in a row to the freeway and that sealed the deal. We turned around at Egypt and came back to Palmyra in perfect time for church.

This was my first church meeting in English in nearly a year. The first Sunday of the month, we have the opportunity to share our testimonies of the Savior. Members go up to the pulpit one at a time and share their thoughts. Near the end of the meeting, I saw out of the corner of my eye, a young lady going to the front row to wait her turn. I was on the opposite side of the chapel and couldn’t see who she was but my spirit was so drawn to her and I wondered who she possibly could be. When it was her turn, I gasped when I saw that she was a young lady from our 5th Branch that I hadn’t seen in months. Her parents are divorced and she had decided to spend some time with her mother. This young lady is very special and is so, so sweet. She has a very kind soul and looks to help others. I couldn’t wait to see her after the meeting. I turned to Sister Lau, who I was sitting with and said, “That’s why we were sent back to Palmyra today!” This darling girl and I exchanged contact information and had lots of hugs and a great little catchup. I love her like she is one of my grandchildren. This was a great lesson in knowing that God has plans for us and we just need to listen.

I have been asking the Lord about what’s next after the next. He told me that I am getting ahead of myself and that I need to breathe. So, I place my trust in Him and know that all will work out for my benefit.

Take your time to breathe and pause. Especially in these times with all the chaos going on around us, it can become overwhelming. Step back to reclaim your peace and serenity. I love the quote, “Don’t trade God’s timing for your deadline.”

In John 14:27 we find: Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

Go forth with faith, not fear and know that you are loved and God’s timing is perfect.