Gifts

Snow Squall blowing through
A respite from the squall

I love to give gifts and this past week had me reflecting on gifts of various types. Do you ever wonder about the gifts you have been given and want to know more about your gifts and abilities? I have been thinking about the gifts of the Spirit. Through the power of the Holy Ghost we can be blessed with gifts of the Spirit. These gifts are given to those who are faithful to Christ. “All these gifts come from God, for the benefit of the children of God” (D&C 46:26). They help us know and teach the truths of the gospel. They will help us bless others. They will guide us back to our Heavenly Father. To use our gifts wisely, we need to know what they are, how we can develop them, and how to recognize Satan’s imitations of them.

The scriptures mention many gifts of the Spirit. These gifts have been given to members of the true Church whenever it has been on the earth. (Mark 16:16-18).

  1. Gift of Tongues: I think about this and rejoice in my ability to learn languages. It does take effort and I am quite happy to practice and learn more.
  2. The Gift of the Interpretation of Tongues: I have experienced this while sitting with people whose language I do not know well but yet, I receive the message. It’s miraculous!
  3. The Gift of Translation: I think about my mom for this one because my mom is a rock star in genealogy. She prepared nearly 1 million names for genealogy. She told me how she specialized in German and specifically Old German Script. My mom could look at the script and translate it while to others, it looked undecipherable.
  4. The Gift of Wisdom: Of course, I immediately think of Solomon who was blessed with great wisdom and was world renowned for it. The first scripture that comes to my mind is from James 1: 5-7. “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.“ But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. “For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord”. The Lord said, “Seek not for riches but for wisdom, and behold, the mysteries of God shall be unfolded unto you” (D&C 6:7).
  5. The Gift of Knowledge: The Lord revealed, “If a person gains more knowledge and intelligence in this life through his diligence and obedience than another, he will have so much the advantage in the world to come” (D&C 130:19). One day I was sewing a complicated set of pillowcases for my sister. I struggled with the order of the sewing. The pillowcases had ties, ruffles and layers. That night I had a dream and the Lord showed me the method of creating the pillowcases. I got up in the morning and followed His instructions and they went together perfectly. I immediately gave thanks and said, “Heavenly Father, you REALLY do know everything!!”
  6. The Gift of Teaching Wisdom and Knowledge: President David O. McKay taught: “It is given unto some, says the Lord in the Doctrine and Covenants, to know by the Holy Ghost that Jesus is the Son of God and that He was crucified for the sins of the world [see D&C 46:13]. It is to these I refer who stand firm upon the rock of revelation in the testimony that they bear to the world”.
  7. The Gift of Believing the Testimony of Others: By the power of the Holy Ghost we may know the truth of all things. If we want to know whether someone else is speaking the truth, we must ask God in faith. If the thing we are praying about is true, the Lord will speak peace to our minds (see D&C 6:22–23). In this way we can know when someone else, even the prophet, has received revelation. Nephi asked the Lord to let him see, feel, and know that his father’s dream was true (see 1 Nephi 10:17–19).
  8. The Gift of Prophecy: Those who receive true revelations about the past, present, or future have the gift of prophecy. Prophets have this gift, but we too can have it to help us govern our own lives (see 1 Corinthians 14:39). We may receive revelations from God for ourselves.
  9. The Gift of Healing: Some have the faith to heal, and others have the faith to be healed. We can all exercise the faith to be healed when we are ill (see D&C 42:48). Many who hold the priesthood have the gift of healing the sick. Others may be given a knowledge of how to cure illness.
  10. The Gift of Working Miracles: The Lord has blessed His people many times in miraculous ways. When the Utah pioneers planted their first crops, a plague of locusts nearly destroyed them. The pioneers prayed that the Lord would save their crops, and He sent seagulls to devour the locusts. When we need help and ask in faith, if it is for our good the Lord will work miracles for us (see Matthew 17:20D&C 24:13–14).
  11. The Gift of Faith: Moroni promises, “Whoso believeth in Christ, doubting nothing, whatsoever he shall ask the Father in the name of Christ it shall be granted him” (Mormon 9:21). I love that promise and I believe that it can happen!

The Lord has said: “For all have not every gift given unto them; for there are many gifts, and to every man is given a gift by the Spirit of God. To some is given one, and to some is given another, that all may be profited thereby” (D&C 46:11–12). I always wonder how I can help others with the gifts I have been given. Of spiritual gifts, the Lord said, “They are given for the benefit of those who love me and keep all my commandments, and him that seeketh so to do” (D&C 46:9).

Our Patriarchal blessings are a font of knowledge for our lives. I remember our Patriarch from the Calgary West Stake giving us instructions on how to receive more knowledge and wisdom regarding our blessings. It was fantastic because it taught us to open ourselves to direct communication with God.

As we start the year, it’s a great time to reflect on what we would like to accomplish and better ourselves in. Are there gifts of the Spirit you would like more of? Are there skills you would like to learn?

This past week has been so wonderful with all the birthdays and anniversary of my parents. They celebrated their 61st Wedding Anniversary. My mama has had so many struggles in her life that this many years together is an incredible blessing.

Papa Moe & Mama Joan – 61 years together.

I like to sing birthday songs to my children and grandchildren. I record myself and then send it to them. The Primary birthday songs are so fun and personalized. I also give them a little message of love. One granddaughter turned 4 and their family has a delightful tradition of each member carrying a lit birthday candle into the birthday person’s bedroom to awaken them on their birthday. The birthday girl woke up and blew out all her candles; it’s very precious!

I was very grateful for all the messages and notes to wish me a happy birthday. As I think on each person, I love remembering our times together. This is a banner year; turning 63 and being born in 1963. Good things should be happening!

Yesterday, I sat beside the Espinoza family during compartir. They have three little boys, 8 years old and under. Those boys told me so much stuff; I learned a lot about them and their family. The oldest boy likes vegetables more than meat. The two youngest are not fans of veggies but love their meat. When their dad let them have some cake, the middle son, takes a bite and says, “It’s okay (chocolate cake) but carrot cake is far superior!” He turned to me and placing his hands on either side of his head, says, “My first time eating carrot cake…it blew my mind!” So, so cute to listen to them and get to know them better.

My sister-in-law shared a great recipe with me on my birthday.

https://www.everyday-delicious.com/herring-salad-with-potatoes/#wprm-recipe-container-9612

Renate told me that her and Hans eat this a lot. It’s a quick and easy recipe with delicious taste. If you aren’t a fish person (oh, well, hahaha). You could also substitute smoked salmon in the recipe. I am now on my third batch of the Russian Pickled Cabbage salad. I’m not tired of it yet. A loaf of bread was baked today as well, a batch of almond flour is in the oven, dehydrating.

Oh, the day to day striving! My big take away from the Come Follow Me lesson was that God didn’t create the world in one day or the snap of His fingers. It took days and in our time thousands of years. I shouldn’t get frustrated when I don’t achieve my goals in a short time. Line upon line and precept upon precept will get us there. Enjoy your week; stay healthy and chin up. Stand in holy places keeping your eyes on the prize.

We’re Not Trunky

The church we live behind; originally a Methodist church.

I have to laugh while typing the title of this post. I am starting to think about things at home that I have missed; king size bed, Soda Stream drink station, a sewing room and the list goes on. We have two months left of our mission. Our last shift will be on March 14. I was taking some salad over to Tonya (our next door neighbor) and Rick, Tonya and I were looking at the calendar at the dates of what we are doing in the next two months. They finish at the same time as us.

I have enjoyed having a dishwasher (our cottage does not have one). It is a Samsung brand and definitely has issues but if you hold your tongue right, the cycle might come out okay. The large capacity washer and dryer have been lovely. When the washer is on the spin cycle it sounds and feels like a Chinook helicopter is right over the house! We had an Electrolux washing machine and dryer in Calgary and it was the cat’s meow; I adored those machines. At the cottage we have a European stacking set but apartment sized, thus small loads are what we can do. Give and take…

We had a fun moment this past week when we went shopping. We first went to BJ’s for bulk items (it’s like a Costco style store) and gasoline. Then we went to Wegman’s for things we had on our shopping list that weren’t available at BJ’s. Finally, we ended up at Walmart to get windshield washer fluid and a couple of grocery items that Wegman’s didn’t have. Three stores!!!!! The fun part was seeing missionaries in Walmart. There were two sister missionaries and I went up to them to say hello. They serve in the Palmyra area. Then Erik came up and asked the sisters if we could buy their groceries for them. They were hesitant and graciously thanked us but no, they were fine. We insisted and I told them the story of when our son, Lyndon was on his mission in Arizona and was approached by a lady who wanted to buy groceries for him and his companion. Lyndon ran off to grab a jug of chocolate milk and a bag of cherries, while his companion grabbed some cereal and milk. When they met back up with her, she looked at what they had chosen and said, “Oh, no, that’s not nearly enough!” She grabbed them each a cart and then went up and down the aisles filling their carts with groceries. She explained that her husband played NFL football for the Cardinals and they could certainly afford to buy these missionaries groceries. At the check-out, she also purchased gift cards for restaurants for them. What a huge tender mercy! So, I told the sisters that we wanted to pass along this kindness to them. Thanks to the example of Deuce Lutui and his wife, other people are being blessed. It was fun, to shop with the sisters as we headed to the cosmetic area for face cream and sugar scrubs. I acted like a Mama Bear and tried to influence the girls to choose better quality products with less chemicals. They were worried about cost and I was telling them that it doesn’t matter; buy what’s best for you.

We had some beautiful weather this past week and the snow has mainly melted. A cold front is moving in and this week on my birthday it will be forecasted for -4C. I say, it’s in honor of the Canadian living in New York state, hahaha!

One day when it was 9C, I told Erik that I was going for a walk and he decided to join me. It was brisk at first because of the wind but as we moved along, it was just fine. We love looking at the historic homes in Palmyra and especially the big ones with carriage houses in the back. It’s fascinating to think about life here 150 years ago.

We stopped in at the T-shirt printing shop and I had questions for them about what they can print and how they do it. I have so many ideas spinning through my head and if I want to implement anything, I need to step on it and get cracking.

Walking past a tattoo shop, I had a good giggle at their sign. When Erik texted it to our daughter-in-law (a tattoo artist), she said, “Yup, those are the rules!”

Them’s the rules!

At the Palmyra temple we do training meetings for the workers for two weeks at a time. Everyone gets the training and it leaves out very few people. This session is about emergency procedures and practices. When it comes to dealing with a tough situation, I could imagine my husband saying, “Let my wife, the wolverine, deal with it!” I realized how well trained I am because of all my leadership training with being a Girl Guide leader. They had a comprehensive training system to help leaders be great with the girls and keep their health and safety at the forefront. I had to be trained to be able to take girls camping and so on. Many of the practices meld well with my life in working with the public. I have great understanding of how to deal with emergencies and how to stay calm.

This past week, my cousin, Crysta gave me some more information about my ancestors. This brings up a point where I have so many questions and all the people to ask are dead. Ask the questions while your relatives are alive!! There are gaps where I don’t understand or know where or why this person lives here or what they did with their lives. It’s so important to keep a journal of your life.

A really exciting and cute piece of news came out of our temple this past week. Brother and Sister Pace have been called to be mission leaders in Guatemala City Center, starting July 1. Also Brother and Sister Mayo are called as mission leaders in Sweden. In the locker room at the temple, I asked Sister Pace to later tell me the details of her call. There was a lot of excitement in the locker room. Suddenly she turned to me and said, “When you are finished with your mission, you can apply to go to Guatemala City for your next mission!” I said, “I see what you’re doing there!!” Sister Pace said, that now that the news is out, she is shamelessly going to be recruiting people to serve in Guatemala.

We are excited to serve again. Who knows where it will be but we will be happy to be out serving again. Being late to church on Sunday was so bizarre because that it not how we operate. We have the sister missionaries back in our Branch and I was super excited to see Sister Parr again. There is a sister from Washington state who is a “visa waiter” going to Peru. Her last name is Law and when we checked our Family Tree app, it seems that we are 3rd cousins! Next week is Compartir and I signed up to bring a salad.

It’s a lot of fun to be good and do good.

Have a happy week of service where you can. Today as I was cutting my husband’s hair, he had a smile on his face. I asked him why he was smiling and he said, “It makes me happy when you are doing something for me.” It doesn’t have to be a grandiose gesture of service; any small act affects in big ways that you may not see. Love to you all!

Service

Snow day at the Palmyra temple

We went through a snow day and then a no-snow day, then rain, then more snow and then more rain. It melts away as the temperatures are still above freezing during the day. The groundskeepers put these fiberglass stakes on the edges of the lawns and islands in the parking lot. I think it’s a smart idea to not run a snowblower over the lawns or run a snow plow into an island. This week, our groundskeeper at our house also pounded stakes into the edges of the lawn. It also frightens me that we could possibly receive enough snow to warrant these stakes. The ones around the island are great because they also have reflective tape on them to warn people coming into the parking lot.

I bought Erik some merino wool leggings to wear under his pants for his winter excursions. They are midweight and for now the temperatures are still warm enough that light weight would be better. We are enjoying the cooler nights and are able to leave a bedroom window open instead of running the air conditioner at night while sleeping. The European way (and Scandanavian) is to bundle your baby in lambs wool fleece and put them in their prams for an afternoon nap outside your house or a cafe where you may meet up with friends. The fresh air is excellent for them and helps to boost their immune systems and promotes healthy sleep habits.

I can attest that being cocooned and then having fresh air blowing over me makes for a great night’s sleep. Personally, I love the connection to nature and it’s healing power.

Being on a mission is all about service. Years ago, our daughter, Leah said to someone that her parents were very hardworking people who love to help others. It’s true, we do try to jump in and give a hand where we can. Being on a temple mission is definitely about service because we help people everyday as they come to worship in the house of the Lord. We are fortunate to have the skills to help out in whatever area we are needed. It was a lovely surprise and joy to see members from our Spanish Branch come to the temple. They are our family here and what joy fills my heart to see them.

I met a gentleman this past week who knows a friend from Alberta. He asked me where I was from and I usually tell people, “Western Canada.” “Yes, but where?” he asked. I told him that our home Stake was Red Deer now. He told me that he knew someone from Olds. Imagine my surprise when he mentioned a dear sister’s name? He has known her for decades. I didn’t know that she was from New York! Our connections are incredible and I feel blessed to know so many people from all the places that we have lived.

This past week, I spent time in the celestial room again and I had specific requests and questions for the Lord. I feel extremely blessed to have those requests answered and dealt with as well as knowing what we are to do when we get home. One of my friends told me, “Cheryl, people aren’t like you and how you receive such specific direction from the Lord. They don’t receive answers like you do.” I was surprised when she told me that because I have been blessed my entire life to have my questions and pleas answered and I thought that it was the same way for everyone.

Erik and I had the priviledge of performing a sealing ordinance for his great grandparents on the Latvian side of his family. His great grandparents are Anton and Marija. As I knelt, I felt Marija put her arm around my shoulders as she knelt next to me. Immediately, the tears started flowing and I felt her love for the service that I was providing. It was a great experience!

We received our assignments for the missionary Thanksgiving dinner. Each couple is to bring a couple of dishes. I agreed to bring a vegetable dish and a dessert. Thus far, I have come up with a spiral veggie tart and pecan pie bars. The next week will determine if any changes need to happen to my plan. I might need to practice beforehand. My children will say, “That’s never stopped you before! You always practiced on our guests!”

I am going to try the recipe from: http://www.bunsenburnerbakery.com

This recipe that I am trying is from: http://www.wellnessbykay.com

My eating style now is grain free so I look for recipes to fit the bill or that I can adapt.

This is what I baked today, Keto Cranberry Orange bread. It turned out well and is a go-to for fresh cranberries.

I’ve decided to sew Christmas pillowcases for the youth and children in our branch (there’s only 7 of them).

There are a variety of poems that you can print and attach when giving them as gifts. I looked on Pinterest and found a few that were appropriate. Here is one:

December brings a magical time, with all sorts of colors, smells and rhyme. Sugar Plum fairies will dance over your bed if you put this special pillowcase under your head. The reason it’s special as you will soon see, is because it’s made with LOVE for you from me. Dreaming of candy canes, Santa and family. Magical times to celebrate daily.

But my favorite is:

This is the poem that I attached to the pillowcases that I gave. So many to choose from!!

I have a quilt with the long armer now. I am excited to get it back and put the binding on. Oh, oh, Erik pressed two bindings for me today. I told him that I’ll make a quilter out of him yet, hahaha! He did say that the binding seemed to go on and on, hahaha!

Don’t you love this? Sometimes it’s hard to get out and give service physically but this quote by Cheryl Esplin shows us that service goes beyond that. Simply doing these things is service. I remember that shortly after getting married, I wanted to set a personal goal and it was to become more patient. I know that you’re all laughing now because you know how that goes. The Lord puts patience testing times in front of you to teach you patience. It didn’t take me long to recognize what was going on and that I was learning. “Oh, I see what you did there, Lord!” seemed to be a familiar thought that was going through my mind. Well, patience was learned.

Maybe pick one thing that you know you could work on to improve. It’s fun to see how the Lord helps you to learn a skill to be of service. Remember that old dogs can learn new tricks; they just have to have the desire to do so and receive the reward of a job well done. To be told by the Savior that I have done a good job is the reward that I look forward to.

Enjoy your week! Stay safe in wintry conditions and put a smile on your face. With a smile on your face, people will wonder what you’ve been up to. I know that my friends choose well, and I love you for that!